Ghost Ghost

The pictures will tell the truth. Create a story. A perfect dress is one thing. But coordinating the accessories and details is what wraps your guests in a mythical event with you as the fairy-tale heroine.

BARF!

Too much pressure!  Too much pressure! I wear jeans and converse 7 out of 7 days a week and on my wedding day I’m supposed to transform into a “fairy-tale heroine”?  These fashion guru people who make statements like these on wedding blogs seem to have no concept of the anxiety they are creating in the minds of the slightly more down to earth ladies who might be reading them.  Ladies who might have anxiety about wearing a dress period, let alone about finding the “perfect” one. Ladies whose favorite accessory might be a hooded sweatshirt.  And what is this “mythical event” business?  Should my wedding be characterized by epic father-son conflicts and heroes slaying monsters?  Does someone need to be sacrificed?  Hopefully not the flower girl.  I mean I’m not an idiot, I get it, I’m supposed to look pretty.   But can we leave words like “perfect” and “fairy-tale” out of the how-to lists please?  Those adjectives seem just a tiny bit difficult to live up to. 

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